Built Before Bonded
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12PM · Formation
1PM · Healing
2PM · Lunch
4PM · Wisdom
5PM · Obedience
Singles Seminar 2026
Built
Before
Bonded
Getting your life in order before relationships get complicated
Relationships do not create your foundation. They reveal it.
Schedule of Events
12:00 PM
Session 1 · Formation
Who’s Building You?
Identity, Foundation, and Spiritual Direction
1:00 PM
Session 2 · Healing
What Are You Carrying?
Healing Unresolved Emotions, Wounds, and Patterns
2:00 PM
Lunch & Breakout — 2 Hours
Worksheets & Group Discussion
Reflection, Breakouts, and Practical Application
4:00 PM
Session 3 · Wisdom
Get Your Life in Order
Responsibility, Discipline, Finances, Future Direction
5:00 PM
Session 4 · Obedience
Build Different
Restoration, Boundaries, and Healthy Connection
Q & A
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Session 1 / Formation
Who's Building You?
Identity, Influence, and Spiritual Direction
Before you ask where your life is going, ask who is building it. This session examines the voices and influences actively forming your character.
01
Influence Check
Who has the most influence in your life right now?
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02
Identity Check
I am becoming someone shaped by...
- I will prove myself.
- I will make them notice me.
- I will not let anyone correct me.
- I will follow this desire even if conviction says no.
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Spiritual Direction
Where am I actually headed spiritually right now?
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04
Final Reflection
One thing to surrender. One practical step this week.
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Session 2 / Healing
What Are You Carrying?
Healing Unresolved Emotions, Wounds, and Patterns
You cannot build freely while carrying what God is asking you to surrender. This session names the baggage, wounds, and patterns that follow people into every relationship.
01
Baggage Check
What unresolved baggage have you been carrying?
- Anger from something in my family
- Still feel rejected by someone important
- Compare myself to someone often
- Feel overlooked or unnoticed
- Replay old conversations or pain
- Carry insecurity I rarely talk about
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02
Wound Check
What wounds have affected you or still affect you?
- Rejection
- Abandonment
- Betrayal
- Favoritism
- Family conflict
- Shame
- Church hurt
- Fear / Insecurity
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03
Pattern Check
What patterns have you noticed in your life?
- I avoid hard conversations.
- I get angry quickly.
- I assume people will leave.
- I repeat patterns from my home.
- I keep going back to what hurts me.
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04
Final Reflection
What are you carrying that God is asking you to surrender?
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Session 3 / Wisdom
Get Your Life in Order
Wisdom, Discipline, Work, and Provision
A healed heart still needs a structured life. This session deals with stewardship, discipline, and direction — because God is not glorified by disorder.
01
Stewardship Check
What has God placed in your hands to manage better?
- Time
- Phone use
- School / Job
- Money
- Attitude
- Spiritual life
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02
Discipline Check
Where do you have desire without discipline?
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03
Life Order Audit
Rate yourself 1-5 in each area. (1=out of order, 5=consistent)
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04
Money + Direction
What limiting belief do you have about money, work, or provision?
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Session 4 / Obedience
Build Different
Restoration, Boundaries, Relationships, and Purity
Revelation without obedience becomes information. This session covers boundaries, healthy connection, and what it looks like to build relationships God’s way.
01
Boundary Check
What boundary do you need to protect what God is healing in you?
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02
Red + Green Flags
Which red flags have you been ignoring?
- They pressure my boundaries.
- They make secrecy feel normal.
- They get angry when corrected.
- They mock my convictions.
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03
Sacred Before Shared
What boundary do you need to decide before pressure arrives?
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04
Build Different Commitment
What does "build different" mean for you? One obedience step this week.
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Q & A
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What did you hear today that you want to go deeper on? Is there something that hit close to home that you couldn’t say out loud? Ask it here. No question is too personal or too simple.
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End of Day
How Was Your Day?
Seminar feedback and personal questions for Elder Castaneda
01
Overall Experience
How would you rate today’s seminar?
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02
Biggest Takeaway
What hit you hardest today? What are you leaving with?
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03
One Step
What is the one thing you will do differently starting this week?
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Is there anything you wanted to ask but didn’t? Ask it here.
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